What does it mean to be cool? I mean the question is what is Cool...and how do you attain this cool? i know it may not be legit, but this is what i think:
- Pretending. Don't do it...serious don't fake being something you're not. It's way more harder trying to be something you're not.
- Loyalty. Show people that they can trust you and trust me it's most likely to be returned.
- Calmness. The thing to calmness is that you never let people see that what they're saying to you is getting to you. So in a heated conversation (argument/verbal confrontation) listen and think about what there using against you, most of the time (especially if they're cursing a lot) the confrontation makes absolutely no sense and can easily be avoided and resolved.
- Respect. Always show respect to everyone, even if you don't like that person. I say always expect respect back...and that means if you feel someone has disrespected you confront them in a calm matter. Then explain to them how you believe they have disrespected you and let them know (in a calm demeanor) that you won't take there shit.
- Don't ever put yourself in situation in which if you were to get caught it would tarnish people's perception of you.
- Don't try to impress everyone...you'll probably never succeed there will always be that one person who will not like you no matter what. You will end up pretending in order to impress that one person.
- Last but not Least. This is not a guide to being cool...trust me it isn't. It's more of 'how to stay cool' and it's basic things most people should know.
So i hope this list was hopefully it works for me so yea enjoy.
